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Teaching Human Development and Sexuality **Updated in 2025**

Obviously every family will handle these subjects differently, which is as it should be.  In fact, each child may require a slightly different approach.  My intent here is merely to share what we have done, not to prescribe what anyone else should do. A great parent resource is Kevin Leman's A Chicken's Guide to Talking Turkey with Your Kids About Sex .  In fact, with this book alone a family would be in great shape to adequately handle these topics without any other resources. We generally first approach these topics very informally by talking about babies.  Anytime I, or anyone in our immediate circle of family and friends, am pregnant, I pull out our books about babies.  We especially like Hello Baby by Lizzy Rockwell, which follows a pregnancy through the first day at home with baby from the point of view of big brother, and The Miracle of Birth by Jenny Bryan, which uses acetate overlays to show what is going on inside of Mom as the baby develops....

Texas History Resources

Here are some books about Texas history we have enjoyed, most of which we picked up here and there for little money: The Story of Texas by George Sessions Perry Texas: The Land of the Tejas by Siddie Joe Johnson Sketches from the Five States of Texas by A. C. Greene Johnny Texas by Carol Hoff Johnny Texas on the San Antonio Road by Carol Hoff Remember the Alamo by Robert Penn Warren The Boy in the Alamo by Margaret Cousins Call of the Southwest: Stories for Young Texans by J. A. Rickard

More than Habit

Charlotte Mason's first volume, Home Education , emphasizes the importance of habits in making our lives run smoothly.  We all operate on lines of habit, either good or bad habits; most choices we make are not made consciously but are made habitually. We are all mere creatures of habit. We think our accustomed thoughts, make our usual small talk, go through the trivial round, the common task, without any self-determining effort of will at all. If it were not so––if we had to think, to deliberate, about each operation of the bath or the table––life would not be worth having; the perpetually repeated effort of decision would wear us out.  Volume 1, p. 110  Modern neuroscience actually supports this idea , calling the "ruts" of Ms. Mason's terminology "neurological pathways" instead. Reading Volume 1, with its emphasis on formation of solid habits, it is easy to lose site of another part of Ms. Mason's philosophy.  Habits were a useful tool, in her es...

Easter Week

Dh and I talked through, tonight, our plans for Easter week this year.  We completely agree that our goal is for the children to understand the need for a redemptive sacrifice and the extraordinarily loving response to that need.  Here's our rough draft plan for this week: Sunday Matthew 21:1-11 Genesis 3:1-15 Monday Matthew 21:12-17  Genesis 22:1-14 Tuesday Matthew 26:1-16 Exodus 12:1-13  Wednesday Matthew 26:17-46 Isaiah 53:1-3 Thursday Matthew 26: 47-75 Isaiah 53:4-6 Friday Matthew 27:1-31 Matthew 27:32-56 Saturday Matthew 27: 57-66 Isaiah 53:7-9 Sunday Matthew 28:1-15 1 Corinthians 15:20-26 Later Ephesians 2:1-10 Colossians 1:11-23 2 Corinthians 5:14-21 Romans 3:21-26

Stumbling Block

I've been reminded recently, on several occasions, of how important is parents' role as the gatekeeper for the education of our children. We simply cannot turn our children over to someone else to be cared for or taught without paying close attention and intervening when needed. So often, I think, we assume that since no other parents object then there must not be anything about which to be concerned. I know that in some areas that was my assumption. For Christians, this is even more imperative since God's instructions in the New Testament regarding children continually warn us not to interfere with their development, not to hinder them, not to cause them to stumble. When we allow others to present them with incorrect theology and biblical interpretation, casual views of God and holy things, or instructions about personal matters that rightly should be handled by parents, I believe we are presenting them with a stumbling block.   Even when we ourselves...

Chores

I hate housework, but I do like a tidy and orderly house.  Not that I really ever have achieved that, but the ideal seems lovely. . .  I cannot possibly keep up with all the housework and homeschool, nor do I want to.  And I want to be sure my children know how to manage their own homes in the future.  So we share the work, just as we share the money . Several years ago I thought about the cleaning tasks that really needed doing on a daily or weekly basis.  I wrote each one out on a notecard, trying to break down large tasks into smaller steps.  (Instead of "clean the refrigerator" I wrote "clean one refrigerator shelf," for instance.)  I made a big pile of these.  I let my oldest (who was at the time the only child doing this type of chore) select the required number of chores from the stack.  She could choose whatever she wanted--I tried to define the chores to be of about equal importance and difficulty (although I've had to refine my de...

Charlotte Mason's Arithmetic Recommendations

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Previous blog posts working through the math recommendations from Charlotte Mason's Volume 1: Charlotte Mason Math: Vol 1 Pgs 253-264 More Charlotte Mason Math, Volume 1 pp. 253-264 More CM Math from Volume 1, pp. 258-259 – Place Value More CM Math from Volume 1, pp. 259-60 – Weighing and Measuring (This post saves having to look up each of the old posts individually.)